Thursday, March 31, 2011

Life goes on... Tribute to Mom

Mom and I were married on APRIL 6, 1977 in the Washington Temple of The Church of JESUS CHRIST of Latter-day Saints. On April 6, 2011 we will have been married for 34 years. Our best accomplishment, other than staying married, has been raising four magnificent children and helping to raise 3 delightful grandchildren in their early years.

Mom is one of the kindest and most non-judgmental people I have ever met. She has loved me, served me, cared for me, prayed for me, guided me, and stood by me all these years in spite of the difficulties of living with someone who is bi-polar. I have tried very hard to be "normal," but the sudden and dramatic changes in mood have frequently overwhelmed me, making it next to impossible to function at all, much less with a semblance of normalcy. Added to this has been my lack of control of anger and an unrealistic view of how the world operates (without should-haves, no could-haves, no crystal ball pessimism... not so many perceived slights, in other words, not as I see it) have made living with me most unpleasant for Mom, I am sure. I am glad she has stuck by me! If for no other reason than her loyalty to me, I love her.

I get melancholy thinking of life without Mom. Should she develop Altzheimer's (like Grandma Herriges and 4 of her sisters) I would miss her terribly. She still laughs at my jokes, likes praying with me, enjoys shopping with me, and gives good back rubs. I love to see her working in her garden. I love to see her dolled up! I love watching her with the grandkids. I hope she will live long enough to meet her great grandchildren. One of my major problems is that Mom seems to love our own children and grandchildren more than me. However, upon mature reflection I know that she has more than enough love for all of us. Her love for the Lord is deeper and more trusting than mine... here we are unevenly yoked. I am more selfish than Mom... I am trying to be motivated more by love of the Lord than by fear or duty. I learn so much from Mom's example.

Well, do wish Mom a Happy Anniversary. She deserves that and so much more! Please keep us in your prayers as we keep you in ours.

Love, Dad

Sunday, March 27, 2011

Dad finds genealogical records!

Yesterday Dad spoke at the funeral of Daniel (Dan) Diehl, husband of Barbara Diehl. Br. Diehl's blessings were restored and he got to give priesthood blessings to his family just a day or so before he passed through the veil. Elder Dalin Oaks interceded the very day with the First Presidency that he got a call from Dianna Diehl's parents who knew him from his days in the Chicago Stake. Dad's talk was on the Plan of Salvation, Resurrection, and the Atonement. Mom and I also went to Wisconsin Memorial Park and to the family dinner at our chapel.
Today Br. Adam Diehl and Barbara's brother, Br. Dresen, attended our High Priest Group and shared beautiful memories with us...

Today I found a file folder I had forgotten about which contained naturalization papers, certified birth, death, and marriage certificates for Bennetts and Jakerles and other Jakerle documents in Czech... also some untranslated Twelmeyer material which may take us back one more (or 2) generations! I will try to get Sr. Frida Kindt (Hans Kindt's wife) to work on the German for me and I will try to use Google Translate for the Czech... Exciting!

Tonight Mom will ask Aunt Susie to work for her at Celestial..HR and Medical Coding. I will take care of Grandma Twelmeyer at our house if Susie says yes. Changes, changes, changes.

Tomorrow I will see Mike Corenthal about buying more records and old "paper" which he is "picking" for us. He is very happy being our picker... When he finds something he usually calls at 8 AM to let me know about it... Just like Uncle Bill, I know who is calling before I pick up!

My father's cousin, Leon Tritt, died a few days ago. He was Helen Flicek Tritt White's son. Helen was my grandmother Mae's sister.

That's it for now.

Love, Dad

Sunday, March 20, 2011

hello from dad

hello... josh t. arrived home safely from buying records in ny state... he and joe packed them all securely in a 14 uhaul truck. that's all for now. dad

Sunday, March 13, 2011

Alayna & Tom Twelmeyer Celebrate Birthdays 11/52

Yesterday, 12 March 2011, the family in town went to Susie & Jeff Boardman's house (where Great Grandma Jane Twelmeyer lives) to celebrate Uncle Tom's and Alayna's birthdays. Uncle John and Alayna & Samantha came down from Hazelhurst, WI. Attending were Susie, Jeff, John, Alayna, Samantha (Sherrie remained in Hazelhurst), Tom, Linda, Jim, Josh, Bobbie Boeing, Matt, Tracy, Luke, Julia, Jane, Daxton, and Pierce (Josh was at work at Apple selling the new Ipad)...for a short while T.J. and Haley Anderson and their baby, Brentley, were also sharing in the festivities. We had submarine sandwiches, cheesy potatos, relishes, peach jello made with whipped cream, lemonade, soda, and Heath cake. Delicious! Alayna and Samantha helped Susie make the cake. Great Grandma thoroughly enjoyed watching the little ones, as did the rest of us.

Earlier on Saturday Linda and I served in the Family History Center at the North Milwaukee Stake Center. We work from 1 PM to 4 PM and closing time came upon us before we even realized it. We love our callings as FHC (Family History Consultants).

On Friday I spoke with Mary Jane Koerner (my older sister) and learned that David, Miki, and Asato John (A.J.) were safe in Hiroshima... on the SE coast of the big island of Japan, quite far from the earthquake and tsunami which hit the NE coast of Japan. We thank God our Heavenly Father for keeping them safe. David also emailed Uncle Tom who emailed us the news.

Today, Sunday, as High Priest Group Leader, I tought the HP Group lesson 27 in the Gospel Principles book, about Work. We had a great discussion and there were 3 older dads with us who had come to Milwaukee from the West to visit their medical school sons and their families.

Today Spencer and Momma started this blog. I am very thankful they did and I have committed to Spence that I will post every Sunday. I believe the concept of family blogs is inspired. What a wonderful age we live in!

I must note my observations about current Wisconsin and US politics. Just as families must live within budget, so must our governments. There are many good projects which are not affordable and which must wait or not be commenced at all. Such is life. I believe as Pres. Ezra Taft Benson wrote, that unions have been necessary to protect workers from abuse by their employers, but then the pendulum swings to abuse of owners of private enterprises or the public (taxpayers) by the unions... Wisconsin's public union members for decades have gotten pay and benefits much higher than taxpayers, the average middle class workers. Gov. Walker removed the privileges of collective bargaining from the unions in all but wages and hours. They also are now required to pay nominal amounts for their health insurance and towards their pensions. Union membership will now be optional for public employees and dues will no longer be taken automatically from their paychecks. Furthermore, the new law says that teachers no longer are required to buy their health insurance from the union. Union bosses throughout the US have sent union members to Wisconsin to protest the new law... Without being too dramatic, I was disgusted with the uncivil conduct of the demonstrators and the mess they made of the capitol building (the cost of cleaning up the building (at least thousands of dollars) will be borne by the taxpayers of Wisconsin. Furthermore, the 14 state senators who fled to Illinois to avoid the vote are not heroes. They tried to impose the will of the minority upon the majority by evading their constitutional duties. Our Republic will not be able to function if the minority threatens to stop the game and take the ball home so the game cannot be played every time they do not get their way. This is not an easy time for any of the states or localities. Having been an alderman in Wauwatosa in the 1980s I remember the cost of salaries and benefits being about 70% of the budget and it seemed as if those items just kept going up and up. Tax increases were the norm. Cutting other items from the budget was very difficult. Cutting benefits was impossible. The Employee Relations Committee of the Common Council was made up of alderman who were union Democrats. Even locally those politicians got a great deal of support from the democrat machine. When one contemplates this, one sees that the taxpayers did not really have a seat at the bargaining table! In a private enterprise union the owner and employees both have seats at the table. We pray for all our legislators and the governor and lt. gov.. I could go on much longer, but I do not want to bore the readers of this blog or offend anyone with my rather strong opinions on this subject.

I think this post is just about long enough... I would like to close tonight with my testimony that Jesus Christ is my personal savior and the savior of the world. Joseph Smith was a prophet just as Isaiah, Moses, and Malachi were in the Old Testament. The Book of Mormon is true. It is another witness of the divinity of Christ. It answers many questions we have about doctrine and the Gospel of Christ. This is the book which brought me to believe in Christ and believe Christ's promises to us. It testified to my soul that the Bible is true. It testified to me that there is a true church, the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints. We have a living prophet today, Pres. Thomas H. Monson. We are truly blessed! Count your blessings. See what God has done in your life. Our Heavenly Father and Jesus Christ live. They love us. God hears and answers our prayers. I leave this testimony with you in the name of Jesus Christ.

Love, Dad

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My First Art Show and Art Symposium


A:"What's your Major?"
B: "Art History."
A:" But do you ever make art?"
B:"I think about making artwork, but i don't really make it."

This is a variation of many conversations I have when I meet someone for the first time at BYU. But recently I actually made one of the works that I spent time just thinking about. (Really its two works). After completing it I submitted it to an art show. Now, I did not know the show that I applied to was pretty competitive, but it was. I know of 5 professors that applied, only 2 of them got in. Needless to say, both of my works got in. That's right, my works got in. I don't have images of the work installed but I will post them as soon as I do.

The Second big event for me this weekend was I spoke at an Art History Symposium on Mass Media at UVU. I had twenty minutes to read my paper on "Questioning New Curatorial Practices of Net.Art". After the event I spoke with the professor that organized the event and she asked me if I'd be willing to talk to her class about Contemporary Art. The event was a lot of fun and it was a great opportunity for me.



Welcome to the Twelmeyer Family Blog



Hello everyone. Spencer helped me to get a family blog going. I really want to hear from all of you weekly. So many things are happening to all of us and would love to hear about it.